There is someone who says, 'Being pregnant at this age (in my 40s) is exhausting,' and I ask, 'Is it true?' She responds, 'Yes, it is,' questioning if it's still feasible to get pregnant at this older age. She expresses reluctance, stating that she is already weary.
However, this person has five children and can distinctly differentiate each childbirth experience. Some were challenging, some more straightforward. Of course, the last one was inevitably more tiring and draining. But I choose to perceive it positively.
I tell her, 'There's no difference for me in giving birth to a first or second child because I haven't experienced either.' I emphasize that there's no contrast for me between delivering at a young or older age because I haven't gone through it. Our phases differ, our paths aren't the same. So, everyone has their own unique experience and that's what makes each story special.
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| "P.S. I also have an adopted fur baby who joined the family |
