Sunday, December 3, 2023

Every Journey Is Unique

 There is someone who says, 'Being pregnant at this age (in my 40s) is exhausting,' and I ask, 'Is it true?' She responds, 'Yes, it is,' questioning if it's still feasible to get pregnant at this older age. She expresses reluctance, stating that she is already weary.

However, this person has five children and can distinctly differentiate each childbirth experience. Some were challenging, some more straightforward. Of course, the last one was inevitably more tiring and draining. But I choose to perceive it positively.

I tell her, 'There's no difference for me in giving birth to a first or second child because I haven't experienced either.' I emphasize that there's no contrast for me between delivering at a young or older age because I haven't gone through it. Our phases differ, our paths aren't the same. So, everyone has their own unique experience and that's what makes each story special.

"P.S. I also have an adopted fur baby who joined the family



Wednesday, November 29, 2023

Blooms of Love: Choice Between Fresh and Artificial Flowers

Hi There,

 

Today, I want to talk about flowers. My husband recently got his master's degree, and I was excited to find the perfect bouquet for him. Luckily, there were many flower stalls at UKM with a variety of blooms, priced between 80 and 200, and some even more expensive. But, I faced a dilemma because the flowers were so beautiful, and the choices overwhelmed me. I also had to decide between fresh and artificial flowers.

Some say fake flowers last longer without wilting, ensuring that your love remains as enduring as artificial blossoms.


Hmm... I was almost about to buy them because, yes, I do want my love to last like those artificial blooms.

As I looked at fake flowers in a store, I kept looking back at real ones. It made me think about why I had to choose. Real flowers are full of life, but they don't last forever—they naturally fade away, like life does.

On the other hand, fake flowers never change. They stay pretty forever. But, they miss out on the real experiences of life, like growing in the sun or swaying in the wind. So, choosing between real and fake flowers is like choosing between something that doesn't last but has a real story, and something that looks good forever but misses out on real-life moments.

Basically, deciding between real and fake flowers is like thinking about whether we prefer things that last a short time but have a real story, or things that look good forever but miss out on the ups and downs of real life.




You can probably tell my choice. Live flowers will fade away, but that's just how life works. Artificial flowers, on the other hand, will never wilt, but they also never really experienced life.



Until Next Time,

'Ain



Monday, November 27, 2023

A Heartwarming Journey at UKM Convocation

 Hi There.


Yesterday, I had the honor of attending my husband's convocation ceremony at UKM. And, congratulations, my love—you are now officially a master's degree holder. I couldn't be prouder of you.

I went with my in-laws, and only two people were allowed in the hall. I then extended my respect to my mother and father-in-law. For me, what my husband has achieved is the result of the prayers of his parents. But... I didn't have to wait outside completely.

Beyond the degree recipients and their parents seated in the Tun Abdul Razak Chancellor Hall (NECTAR), those without designated seats found a welcoming space in the Dewan Gemilang, conveniently located next to Nectar. The venue was quite comfortable, equipped with air conditioning—a relief. Additionally, my younger brother joined the celebration, bringing delicious food that made it feel like we were enjoying a movie with the large screen. A heartfelt thank you to UKM for providing such a comfortable and accommodating environment.


Inside Dewan Gemilang



It was a proud moment as everyone stood to pay respect during the playing of Negaraku. It has been a while since I attended any event with our national anthem, and I couldn't help but feel a sense of pride.



I will be uploading more photos later, as some of them are still in my younger sibling's camera.

Congratulations, my dear. I love you.


Until Next Time,

'Ain

My IVF Journey 1: Ups and Downs

Hello there,

Becoming a mom has happy moments and tough times. My journey started when I chose to do IVF. Little did I know that this journey would not only make me happy about being pregnant but also make me face new challenges, checking how strong and determined I could be.

Since trying to conceive through IVF, I noticed significant changes in my body.. I gained weight, and losing those extra pounds felt really hard. The hormone injections made me super hungry all the time, and it was tough not to give in to eating too much... 

As time passed, my body changed a lot, making me doubt myself and feel less confident. But my love for my husband and the dream of having a child motivated me strongly. Even with all the tough physical and emotional challenges, I was ready to face everything for the sake of creating this precious life together.

The exciting news came at last—I was pregnant. The joy was mixed with the understanding that my body had gained a lot of weight during this time. Things got more complicated when gestational diabetes (GDM)became part of the picture, adding an extra challenge to my pregnancy.

The weight, I must say, was quite alarming.. HAHHAHAH . During a visit to the doctor, I got a serious warning. The doctor firmly told me that I had to focus on my health. At first, I was stubborn and didn't pay much attention because hunger was always with me…But everything changed when the doctor stressed how it could affect the child I was carrying. That made me wake up and think about my choices. Allah.. I was scared to death… I decided to stick to a strict diet and lifestyle, determined to make sure both me and my unborn child were healthy.

In the following weeks, something amazing happened. Despite the difficulties, I was able to lose 5 kilos during my pregnancy. People were surprised; nurses checking my weight couldn't believe that instead of gaining weight like most pregnant women, I was actually getting thinner.

Allah... these are some memories of when I carried my Anak Syurgaku, Khadeeja. Sweet memories, even though it was difficult for me at that time. The happiness of those moments is much greater than the challenges I went through. Terima Kasih Allah kerana pernah meminjamkan Khadeeja buatku dan suamiku.

Until Next Time,

'Ain


Monday, November 20, 2023

Harini Happy Sangat: My Love for Planner and Journaling

Hey there, Planner Lover! Harini happy sangat! I can't contain my excitement, and I'm eager to share why. By the way, I'm a big fan of planners and journaling, and today is an extra special day because the planner I ordered is finally here.

Let me tell you why I have this deep love for journaling:


1. Functional Planning is My Jam

One of the main reasons why I adore journaling is because I love planning. There's something incredibly satisfying about laying out my goals, to-dos, and schedules in a visually appealing way. I'm all about functional planning that helps me stay organized and on top of things.


2. Documenting Life's Moments

Another aspect of journaling that brings me joy is capturing the moments that make up my life. Whether it's a small victory, a heartwarming experience, or a lesson learned, I love jotting down these snippets. It's like creating a timeline of memories that I can revisit whenever I want.


3. Brain Dumping – Therapeutic and Enlightening

And then there's the therapeutic aspect of journaling, especially the art of brain dumping. Pouring out my thoughts, feelings, and ideas onto paper is not only cathartic but also eye-opening. When I go back and read what I've written, I often discover new perspectives or solutions to challenges that seemed daunting at the time.


So, why am I exceptionally happy today? It's because the planner I ordered has finally arrived! This time, I opted for a local leather planner from "The Buku Girl." It's my third time ordering from her, and let me tell you, the craftsmanship is top-notch. I've also tried planners from Moterm and Yard and the leathersmith, and each has its unique charm. I'll delve into the details of each planner I own in a future post.


For now, let me give you a sneak peek into my latest addition – a personal-sized ring planner. Check out the video below for a closer look at the beauty of my new planner from "The Buku Girl."



I can't wait to fill the pages of this planner with my dreams, plans, and the beautiful chaos of life. Stay tuned for more detailed insights into my planner collection. Until then, happy planning and journaling, Planner Lover!!

Until Next Time,

Áin

Friday, November 17, 2023

Younger Generation: Semakin tak bertamadun?

Hello there,

I'd like to share my thoughts on the younger generation today. I must admit, I am genuinely find them quite impressive. Their self-presentation is empowering, especially in the corporate world. They excel in communication and presentation skills, and their language proficiency is truly praiseworthy. However, I've noticed a lack of empathy and manners at times. It's crucial, nonetheless, to show respect to elders in the workplace, as some lessons come from experience, not just academics.

It's sometimes disheartening to witness potential gaps in the current generation. Could it be that the higher their academic achievements, the lower their morals and manners? Shouldn't these aspects progress hand in hand?

Reflecting on my own learning days, I recall the "Tamadun Islam", where a society becomes civilized through the harmonious blend of good manners and knowledge, not knowledge alone. Indeed, is it appropriate for me to express concern about the potential decline of civilization with the current generation?

I recognize that some may see me as old-fashioned, voicing outdated sentiments. You might believe that manners are irrelevant. Not to mention bangsa dan agama lain…Still, I'm confident that all religions teach goodness. For the younger generation following Islam, it's crucial to remember that MANNERS are still emphasized in Islam.

Until Next Time,
'Ain

Thursday, November 16, 2023

Viral Bus Driver Kiss: False Accusation

 Hello There,

Recently, there has been a viral story about a female bus driver who is said to have engaged in inappropriate behavior inside the express bus she was driving. Recordings show a middle-aged man appearing to behave intimately with the female driver, and it's been said that because of their carelessness and distraction, the bus got delayed by three hours..

But a married couple sitting behind the driver disagrees with these claims. According to them, they had a clearer view of both the driver and the co-driver. The husband and wife say that the man accused of kissing the female driver didn't do what people are saying. Instead, he was just fixing the radio in the driver's headrest. They think the viral video is unfair because it doesn't show what really happened and only catches the incident from the wrong angle!

Talking about a three-hour delay, I couldn't help but wonder if perhaps Allah intended to protect her from something harmful. Regardless, it's essential to be cautious before spreading any information. We don't know the whole truth, and sometimes it's better for someone to remain silent.



Every Journey Is Unique

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